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Marina Smiley, a Russian woman who lives in the US, has found several methods to combine your trip to Russia with doing business. Many Russians search a Western business partner, and you don't have to be a marketing guru to become one. It may be a bit off topic here, but if you are interested, you should read her book Cheap Ticket to Russia.

When Should You Meet
Your Mail Order Bride?

If your search for a mail order bride goes well, you will find a woman that stands out, and your desire to meet will become stronger and stronger.

The key question is: When is it really time to meet my woman?

Lesson 1: Don’t rush.

Lesson 2: But don’t wait too long either.

Within a few months (let’s say after ten long letters - and the more, the better) you should either visit your lady, or at least set a date for your meeting. The latter is especially important if your holidays are still far away. Your lady needs something to look forward to.

Don't forget that she might be corresponding with other men who may want to meet her as well.

Visit her in her home country, and see how your lady is in everyday life.

You will meet her family and friends, get an impression of the place where she grew up and works, her city, her culture. It's the best option!

You can also invite your lady to visit you in your country. Visa regulations and income figures make it difficult (if not impossible) for mail order brides to travel abroad, so you will have to support her. But remember this: never send her money for the trip if you haven't met her before.
If you live in the States, you can even forget about this option: single foreign women from non-western countries (almost) never get a tourist visa for the US, unless they are really rich.

Meeting in a third country is easier. Travel agencies in Russia for example, offer tours to Europe which makes it not too difficult for her to visit EU countries.
No matter how great it sounds to meet in romantic Paris, you can't expect to see a lot of each other if you're both strangers in a strange land.

So it’s most likely you meet your mail order bride in her country. If your mail order bride is Russian, go to our Russian travel section to learn more about preparing your trip (visa, tickets, hotels etc.).

Use your meeting to find out if she's really the kind of woman you hope she is, and if she thinks that you are the man that she wants.

Some men keep on corresponding with two or three women, and then meet them all during a two-week round-trip. It may work, but keep in mind that if a woman finds out that she was running a race for being yours, romance might be spoiled in a second.

One thing you have to do, is decide about your future before you leave.

If you think you don’t match, tell her. It’s not a pleasant thing to say, but it should be made clear for both parties.

You think you do have a chance together? Speak about it, keep on corresponding and prepare yourself for a second trip to her.

Or - and now it's getting serious:

Ask your lady to become your wife.

If you don't know how to do it, the Romance Guide To Popping The Question, written by Oprah romance expert Michael Webb, gives you 101 ideas for romantic marriage proposals. Surprise her and she will feel like she's in heaven!

Marina Smiley gives excellent advice on Russian culture and etiquette in her book Sex, Love and Long Distance Relationship with Russian women. It's good to know and understand some of the Russian habits if you want to really catch your lady's heart.

Once you have popped the question and she said yes, she finally becomes a real mail order bride.

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