How To Find The Right Mail Order Bride

If you decide to buy addresses (like most do), you will be a very lucky guy if only one address does the job. Mail order brides receive letters from many men and often need a lot of time to answer - but at least in those cases you get a reply. Reality is that most women (50-70 percent, depending on source) never write back.

Following these figures, you should at least buy ten or fifteen addresses the first time to have some sort of choice.

But which of all these gorgeous women should you choose?

To find your bride, it's best to work systematically.

First advice: don’t let Dick do all the thinking. Do not just look photos, but read profiles and all other information you find about a women. Love at first sight may exist, but usually there's more that should hit the eye than long legs and a nice hair style.

A woman's education and profession indicate her intellectual level. Her age says something about her expectations of life and her interests. Her English level tells you if communication with this woman will be easy or if you need a translator.

In case she has children, your life will not only be enriched by a (grown up) woman.

Does she have email? If she has, it will speed up the process considerably.

All this should play a role in your decision to write a mail order bride or not.

Make a list.

Write down what characteristics your woman should have, and what not, and then select profiles.

Keep in mind that for many mail order brides it was quite some task to write a profile in English. So if she wrote only a short piece about her hobbies or personality, don't think that she is dumb or not talkative.

When you have found, let’s say fifteen ladies that are worth to write, you send them your introduction letter, if needed translated. Don’t forget to enclose your photo (the one with the tie!).

If you get a lot of replies, make a selection and write the most interesting ladies a second letter. Usually three letters are enough to know if further correspondence could make sense. Narrow it down and stick to the one or two you like most, when you feel one of these could be worth meeting.

If no such spark emerges, call it a day, buy new addresses and start all over again till you find a woman you would really like to meet.

There are so many attractive women in foreign countries, it's sure you can find one, as long as you take the right steps and approach them without prejudices.

Send the ladies you stop corresponding with, a letter to thank them for showing interest. They have a right to know they have no chance. Otherwise they wait for weeks or months for a reply that never comes.

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